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To anyone listening,
I am sorry for the delay from my last blog. I needed some time to deal with things going on. My cat Toonces has been at the vet since yesterday morning. He is having some issues and that is costing us a lot of money but he is our family. His medical bills are creeping closer to my total everyday.
Anyway, I did get to spend some much needed time with my friend Maria. We went to the Cheesecake Factory and were able to talk for a few hours. When I looked at the clock, I didn't realize how much time had passed but that's what it is like with friends. One of my favorite things about Maria is her heart. She really loves the people in her life. She doesn't have a million people she calls friends just to look cool or to have a high number on Facebook. Maria actually keeps her friends and family close to her.
Her wedding is next year and it got me thinking of all the ups and downs we had been through and of all the good moments with laughing and the hard ones with tears and here she is getting married. My little Maria is all grown up. She isn't much younger than me lol but when a friend does something big in their life, it's like you are going along with them.
"Sometimes people are beautiful...Just in what they are."
I have been blessed with a few close friends. I have also known some people, especially recently, whom I am not close with but have been there for me more than a lot in my life. It' amazing the true beauty of people when you least expect it.
It just got my thinking of all the people that cross our path. What they give us. What we learn. Even if we have to let them go, we have to take a moment to see why they were in our lives and what positive things came from it. Hopefully it makes us better for it in the end.
I have several enemies and when I pray for them, I pray for protection and love and happiness in their life because I truly do hope they get all of that. I don't really care anymore how they feel about me. It isn't about that. I know me. I know what I think, why I did things then, what I may or may not do now but for whatever reason, it happened. It hurt. It heals. You move on and hope they do too and that we all move on to something really amazing.
I am still human and of course my feelings about certain things regarding what has happened in my past can still sting but in reality you do in fact, live and learn.
Then.. I get to meet people like Maria. People who have stayed in my life even after fights. When things got hard, they stayed. We talked and learned and moved on... together. We both have said sorry and both have forgiven. I think in the end, the relationships that stand the test of time are the ones that can get through all that and come out stronger. Those are the relationships that aren't just for a season but hopefully for a lifetime.
I am sorry for the delay from my last blog. I needed some time to deal with things going on. My cat Toonces has been at the vet since yesterday morning. He is having some issues and that is costing us a lot of money but he is our family. His medical bills are creeping closer to my total everyday.
Anyway, I did get to spend some much needed time with my friend Maria. We went to the Cheesecake Factory and were able to talk for a few hours. When I looked at the clock, I didn't realize how much time had passed but that's what it is like with friends. One of my favorite things about Maria is her heart. She really loves the people in her life. She doesn't have a million people she calls friends just to look cool or to have a high number on Facebook. Maria actually keeps her friends and family close to her.
Her wedding is next year and it got me thinking of all the ups and downs we had been through and of all the good moments with laughing and the hard ones with tears and here she is getting married. My little Maria is all grown up. She isn't much younger than me lol but when a friend does something big in their life, it's like you are going along with them.
"Sometimes people are beautiful...Just in what they are."
I have been blessed with a few close friends. I have also known some people, especially recently, whom I am not close with but have been there for me more than a lot in my life. It' amazing the true beauty of people when you least expect it.
It just got my thinking of all the people that cross our path. What they give us. What we learn. Even if we have to let them go, we have to take a moment to see why they were in our lives and what positive things came from it. Hopefully it makes us better for it in the end.
I have several enemies and when I pray for them, I pray for protection and love and happiness in their life because I truly do hope they get all of that. I don't really care anymore how they feel about me. It isn't about that. I know me. I know what I think, why I did things then, what I may or may not do now but for whatever reason, it happened. It hurt. It heals. You move on and hope they do too and that we all move on to something really amazing.
I am still human and of course my feelings about certain things regarding what has happened in my past can still sting but in reality you do in fact, live and learn.
Then.. I get to meet people like Maria. People who have stayed in my life even after fights. When things got hard, they stayed. We talked and learned and moved on... together. We both have said sorry and both have forgiven. I think in the end, the relationships that stand the test of time are the ones that can get through all that and come out stronger. Those are the relationships that aren't just for a season but hopefully for a lifetime.
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